The "Thank You"
Sometimes words get misinterpreted which is especially troublesome when the original fault is my own fault. In this case it was my procrastination that started the conversation today at lunch. David asked what had happened to the Blog? He had been following it and nothing was happening. Carol asked when I was going to thank her. And, yes, I had neglected to do just that. I procrastinate badly. I was thinking about the little calendar that Carol gave me for my birthday. It was a calendar of beloved "Dog birthdays" and Mika, Carol's "wonder dog" was featured. The calendar was a fund raiser for the Havanese Rescue Organization. When Carol mentioned "all the work she had put into it" I was still thinking about the calendar.
I totally misunderstood that she was talking about her role in putting on the party which I certainly have not forgotten. Carol was asked to provide names and addresses of people in Roanoke and the family and she went way beyond the call of duty phoning every person she could think of to let them know about the party. It took her hours on the phone and more hours on the computer. I was amazed at how she managed it. How affirming it was to realized how many people would take the time to come out and celebrate my birthday.
One day Carol called and asked if I wanted to go for ice cream. Of course, I want to go for ice cream. We walked to Hits Ice Cream but I hardly noticed when she hovered by closely as I ordered the flavor I wanted and then told them all what was my second most favorite flavor. When the birthday cake came out at the party there were both flavors of ice cream......big tubs of ice cream. It was almost heaven.
So here I am saying it publicly.........Thank you, Carol, my bestest ever cousin, for all your hard work, time and energy that went into the party invitations. Thank you also for the lovely calendar which featured Mika, the "wonder dog" (Carol always wonders what she is thinking) three time within it's pages. It's fun finding her pop up as I leaf through the year.